{"id":2085,"date":"2015-12-10T14:37:58","date_gmt":"2015-12-10T19:37:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blogs.bu.edu\/comblog\/?p=2085"},"modified":"2015-12-10T14:37:58","modified_gmt":"2015-12-10T19:37:58","slug":"stacy-the-5-stages-of-grief-after-ending-an-internship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.bu.edu\/comblog\/2015\/12\/10\/stacy-the-5-stages-of-grief-after-ending-an-internship\/","title":{"rendered":"Stacy: The 5 Stages of Grief after Ending an Internship"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>So you&#8217;re interning at your dream company&#8230; and you are having an amazing time. But suddenly you get the e-mail telling you the password to your work e-mail is about to expire. You also get the e-mail from your internship coordinator in COM giving you the end of the semester paperwork to receive internship credit. How do you handle it? Through these stages:<\/p>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><b>Denial <\/b>&#8211; &#8220;Wait, so I don&#8217;t actually work here?&#8221;<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>After working for a company or organization for a semester&#8230; you almost feel part of it. However, come finals time&#8230; you realize there is a last day&#8230; and it comes quick.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-2086\" alt=\"\" src=\"\/comblog\/files\/2015\/12\/conf-7.gif\" \/><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>\n<div><b>Adjusting &#8211; <\/b>&#8220;Look at all the free time I have&#8230; it&#8217;s great&#8230;.&#8221;<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Not used to 16-20 free hours every week? How do you spend them once the internship is over? I guess there is Netflix&#8230; or you can exercise&#8230; or sleep? But who really wants to do those things?<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><img src=\"http:\/\/38.media.tumblr.com\/1bb06a4e982571cf3baa6b923050cc24\/tumblr_inline_nnwdqzntjh1qln8j2_500.gif\" \/><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>\n<div><b>Depression<\/b> &#8211; &#8220;Oh your internship still has another week? Mine already ended&#8230;&#8221;<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Watching your friends continue dressing in their business casual while you&#8230; don&#8217;t. You&#8217;ve already finished all six seasons of White Collar and re-watched The Office, so I guess you can take up a hobby? Knitting or&#8230; watching the TV station you interned for&#8230;.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"500\" height=\"230\" src=\"http:\/\/ak-hdl.buzzfed.com\/static\/2013-11\/enhanced\/webdr07\/19\/12\/anigif_enhanced-buzz-15393-1384882630-32.gif\" \/><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>\n<div><b>Anger &#8211;\u00a0<\/b><b>\u00a0<\/b>&#8220;So&#8230; there will be another me next semester?&#8221;<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>You realize there is a new intern every semester&#8230; someone who will do the same jobs you did, sit in the same seat you did and have the same opportunities. You consider re-applying for the same internship.. but you know it&#8217;s wrong.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><img src=\"http:\/\/rack.2.mshcdn.com\/media\/ZgkyMDEzLzA2LzEyLzMyL1BhcmtzYW5kUmVjLjU3YWQ2LmdpZgpwCXRodW1iCTEyMDB4OTYwMD4\/7b6bb8cc\/b96\/Parks-and-Rec.gif\" \/><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>\n<div><b>Acceptance &#8211; <\/b>&#8220;I wonder where I&#8217;ll intern next!&#8221;<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>You finally understand that there is so much in your future college career to embark on, and you can take the experiences from your past internships &#8211; and use them in the future.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"500\" height=\"250\" src=\"http:\/\/45.media.tumblr.com\/0d5a04c95bd87b7665014e6d6ead5081\/tumblr_n8j6a7NCos1sdadx9o1_500.gif\" \/><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>So you&#8217;re interning at your dream company&#8230; and you are having an amazing time. But suddenly you get the e-mail telling you the password to your work e-mail is about to expire. You also get the e-mail from your internship coordinator in COM giving you the end of the semester paperwork to receive internship credit. &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/blogs.bu.edu\/comblog\/2015\/12\/10\/stacy-the-5-stages-of-grief-after-ending-an-internship\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Stacy: The 5 Stages of Grief after Ending an Internship<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2018,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[44404],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.bu.edu\/comblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2085"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.bu.edu\/comblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.bu.edu\/comblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.bu.edu\/comblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2018"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.bu.edu\/comblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2085"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.bu.edu\/comblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2085\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2087,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.bu.edu\/comblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2085\/revisions\/2087"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.bu.edu\/comblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2085"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.bu.edu\/comblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2085"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.bu.edu\/comblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2085"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}