{"id":782,"date":"2014-10-06T15:41:03","date_gmt":"2014-10-06T19:41:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blogs.bu.edu\/comgrad\/?p=782"},"modified":"2014-11-16T10:30:38","modified_gmt":"2014-11-16T15:30:38","slug":"classmates-and-competition-in-grad-school","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.bu.edu\/comgrad\/2014\/10\/06\/classmates-and-competition-in-grad-school\/","title":{"rendered":"Classmates and competition in grad school"},"content":{"rendered":"

By Keiko Talley<\/strong><\/a>
\n MS Journalism ’16<\/em><\/a>
\nBU College of Communication<\/em><\/a><\/p>\n

One of the greatest aspects of grad school is the friends you make during your time. Instantly, you find a group of people that are going through the same thing as you, so you befriend them. The people around you offer to review your work and let you know what you need to add or take out before submitting it. Everyone is in the same-pressured situation as you, so it\u2019s easy to quickly form a bond that continues to grow stronger, like a family.<\/p>\n

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I met some of the greatest friends my first month here at Boston University, and for that, I could not be more thankful. When one of us is down, the others are always there to pick us up. When we all have the same project to do, it turns into a night with dinner and homework, spent laughing way more than students should be while doing homework. Everyone within the program is more than willing to help each other out; they\u2019re the ones I call to go out with on the weekends, and the same ones I ask to reread my work.<\/p>\n

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But then you go home and think about why you\u2019re in grad school and the job you want in\u00a0a\u00a0year or so. Suddenly, you can see your competition; she\u2019s the girl sitting across from you in class with the nice outfit\u00a0and perfect makeup. She is also the same girl you just went\u00a0<\/span>to the bar with last weekend. You look to your left, and you see more of your competition. He is Mr. Personality with great hair that everyone loves. He is also one of the guys you had lunch with yesterday. The friends you make in the classroom are also the competition you face in the field.\u00a0<\/span>“Look around, these people are going to be your friends. But these people are also your competition,\u201d my TA said on the first day of class.<\/p>\n

When I first heard her say that, I chuckled, as I found it hard to believe we would one: all\u00a0become good friends and two: compete with each other. Sadly, it\u2019s the truth. Mr. Personality may be one of the funniest friends I have here at BU, but he is also the one that\u2019s going to apply to that position at the Boston Globe when you apply too.<\/p>\n

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Although at the end of the day, this unique friendship-phenomenon has its advantages.\u00a0That competitiveness we find within grad school, subconsciously motivates\u00a0<\/span>us to better ourselves; run faster, swim harder, speak better, smile bigger. Grad school gives you a sense of healthy competition. You\u2019re competitive with your friends because you want to do better, but\u00a0<\/span>you are also friends with your competition. You\u2019re able to learn from each other and grow\u00a0<\/span>together as a unit, which will bring you one step closer to that dream\u00a0<\/span>job after graduation.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you’re a graduate student here at COM, I would love to hear any of your stories or thoughts on befriending your competition!\u00a0Not a graduate student, but interested in becoming part of our COM family here at BU? Learn more about our graduate programs by visiting our website<\/a>.<\/p>\n

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