I would like to thank Catherine Greig's attorney for setting women back about three decades today. Greig is Whitey Bulger's long time girlfriend, the one that fled with Whitey and hid with him for sixteen years while the federal authorities supposedly looked for him. (I find this whole claim a bit dubious because of Whitey's previous involvement with the FBI. It seems to me impossible that he could hide out for 16 years, many of those years in Santa Monica, California, while Osama Bin Laden was caught in less time. But that conspiracy theory is a digression). Greig pled guilty to several crimes, including harboring a fugitive, and was sentenced today. She chose not to speak, which is interesting on so many levels, given the level of hatred that was directed toward her by the families of Whitey's victims. After the sentencing, her lawyer said this:
"Catherine Greig fell in love with Mr. Bulger, and that's why she was in the situation she was in," Reddington said. "Miss Greig did not believe that Mr. Bulger was capable of these homicides."
Another lawyer said, "She doesn't buy that, doesn't believe it, and absolutely stands by her man," Carney said.
I am not kidding. She stands by her man? She loves him, so we should just ignore the fact that she hid him from the authorities, or helped him hide, for 16 years? And now she has no regrets?
Does anyone else find this "Love Defense" perplexing, and a teeny bit sexist? What lawyer would say that his male client did something because he loved his girlfriend? You never hear that the defendant was just "standing by his woman." Are women so malleable that we bend at the whim of our significant others, willing to anything, even commit 16 years of federal crimes? Ugh.
As a lawyer, I get that this was either the truth (pathetic), or the best defense available to his client. Greig's lawyer merely doing his job, finding the best explanation for chain of bad decisions. But I happened to be in front of the TV for the press conferences after the sentencing, and seeing and hearing this lawyer utter the words "stands by her man" made me nearly choke on my lunch.
My friends and I were talking about the Love Defense tonight, as I wondered aloud whether I am a heartless jerk. Maybe it isn't so pathetic to love someone so much you will literally do anything for that person. I do love my husband a lot, but what if that love conflicts with my values? What about my kids? Would I help my kids become fugitives, or turn them in? For an interesting contrast, consider the case of the brother of the Unabomber. If you are too young to remember, in the 80's and 90's there was a series of mail bombs sent to people around the U.S. In total, three people died and many others suffered terrible injuries. When Ted Kaczynski's brother read about the letters included with the bomb, he expected his brother, who had lived in the woods and acted erratically for many years. The brother made the heart-breaking decision to turn Ted in, and he was prosecuted with a promise to his brother that the federal prosecutors would not seek the death penalty.
Getting back to Catherine Greig, the Love Defense didn't work. She was sentenced to 96 months in federal prison, with the Court specifically citing the importance of the general deterrence effect of a harsh sentence in a case like this one. True love does not conquer all, it seems.