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The Secret of the Heart

by Mohammad Al-Ramadhan

Secret of the Heart
Cannot be seen or heard
Neither by the fifth sense
Nor by latest science
or visualized by scenes

just its neighbors
maybe visitors
to that home
want to pass through
reasonably unknown
why going around
to that huge world
which has few words
to describe the meaning
and all the feeling
of that simply sweet
and secret of the heart

The Possibility of Return

by Gwen Bindas
from her book, Sometimes in Summer (Finishing Line Press; 2012)

The underground in summer
Is home to minor deities:
The god of wind, a metal fan;
The god of thunder, a rumble
From farther down the track.

The stars here are crude,
Light bulbs that glare in a fresco
Of chipped paint and water stained walls.

Above ground, souls stride in the sun-filled streets,
The click of heels meeting cobblestones,
The familiar embrace of humid air.

But below ground, they are a stream of sandals and skirts
Rippled by the facsimile of a breeze,
Attuned to the clang of trolley bells,
False music that rings through the tunnel,
All heads turning, turning.

Boston Comes Alive! Photo Contest

After experiencing a rough winter in Boston this year, we are enormously appreciative of summer - the weather, the sights, the sounds, the festivals, our communities, and even nature.  It all comes alive around us, as if encouraging us to become more lively ourselves. Thank you to everyone who captured Boston coming alive in your pictures, and sending them to us! The editorial team carefully judged each photo, and chose the following winners:

1st Place

by Shaher Alanazi
by Shaher Alanazi

2nd Place

by Sahar Amini
by Sahar Amini

3rd Place

by Meng Sheng
by Meng Sheng

4th Place

by Mohammed Alsubai
by Mohammed Alsubai

While the following photos did not win, we would like to give them an honorable mention:

Have a wonderful summer everyone!  Keep capturing moments of Boston coming alive!

CELOP You-Speak: What is the one thing you have seen in Boston that seems culturally odd to you?

We wanted to know what CELOP students think about one thing they have seen in Boston that seems culturally odd to them. A huge thank you to Diana Lynch's Academic Writing class for sharing their responses with the CELOP Sun!

Eating in class - by Min Kim
Students in Boston eat everywhere even during class and meetings. In this essay, I am going to talk about what funny cultural thing I have experience since I have been in Boston. In order to describe my funniest experience, I need to go back to my first counseling theory class. There were over 40 students and an instructor described a textbook and papers we needed to write. At that time, I could smell pasta and salad so I looked around the classroom and was surprised because someone was eating pasta and salad during the class. The most interesting thing in this situation was that no one told him to stop eating, not even the instructor. Everyone was doing what they needed to do during the class, e.g., reading and writing. However, in S. Korea eating is not allowed during class because Koreans have been trained that students should be quiet and show respect to the instructor. If I eat my lunch during class, others will make me stop eating and I will be kicked out of the classroom, because it is pretty rude. I could not believe it and I was confused by what I saw and experienced during class in Boston. After class, I asked my American friends and heard that eating lunch during class is a common and typical behavior in Boston. After that, I have enjoyed eating my lunch during meetings and during this class even though it is not acceptable in my home country.

The Bostonian Accent - by Aziza Yahya
The thing which stunned me most is the Bostonian accent. There are two reasons for my surprise. First, they talk very fast as if they eat words. I faced difficulties with the cashier in the market when he asked me “do you need a bag?”  I said, "what was that?" Then I understood him after he had repeated it for me three times. Second, in the Bostonian accent they do not pronounce the "r" sound. For instance, when I went to buy a pair of  skates, I met an old Bostonian man who works in the skate shop. I asked him if he was from England. He laughed and then told me that the reason why they talk this way is because Boston was a British colony. That's why  the Bostonian accent amazed me when I came to Boston.

American Socks - by Wadee Alazamah
When I first came to Boston, everything was different from my culture. The most interesting thing I noticed that looked funny to me was the colorful socks! I noticed that Americans love to wear colorful and cheerful socks even on formal days. For example, one of my professors always wears yellow shiny socks with orange circles all around his socks. I think there is a secret behind this weird habit that Americans do and why they love it. In my perspective, it felt awkward to me because in my culture only kids wear those kinds of socks. Seniors try to look more serious and responsible. What we expect from an elder person when it comes to socks is to wear a solid color such as, white, black, or brown. For instance, another senior professor wears a tie with pumpkin faces on it. I would never see this in my culture, ever! In conclusion, I think Americans do what they love and don’t care about the negatively perceived image from other people. After all, it is cultural.

The Secret of the Bostonian's Smile - by Mansoor Alameri
People smile at me everywhere I go in the city of Boston . People were so nice to me at the school, housing, coffee shops, restaurants, and even on the streets when I passed them by. I enjoyed my first month in Boston last year. I was experiencing the so-called "honeymoon,'' which was the first phase of culture shock. I was pleased by that privilege, which I thought at the beginning, nobody had ever experienced. I have experienced that because I saw myself as special and different in their eyes. After a short period of time, I began to ask myself, " Why are these people so nice to me?" My mind extracted many fake answers, which I was convinced for a while were true. I thought beautiful facial expressions and pleasing smilies both reflected an interest in talking to me or showing a warm welcome for a foreigner. That was what I deducted, relying on my cultural background of the meaning of a smile. However, when I settled down here, I found out that these nice faces and exaggerated smiles were just simple references of daily greetings for Bostonians. They had superficial meanings and had nothing to do with what I had earlier thought. Ever since then I have been trying to acquire a ''superficial'' trait of smiling at every face I ever meet, even though I do not know them very well. Smiling and being nice to others, for Americans, have an utterly different cultural perception than mine.  I am sure that Americans have deeper and more expressive connotations than what I have become aware of.

Small Parking Spaces - by Zhenyu Wang
When I just came to Boston, I saw a very interesting thing, which was that the parking distance between two cars was so close. I was really shocked because I couldn’t imagine how drivers have to drive the car to the left. For me, I have had a driver's license for two years in China. The hardest thing for me is to back up a car into a parking space. However, in China Parking spaces have a bigger distance between each car so that drivers can avoid a car crash and to easily allow drivers to get out of the spot. When I went to Japan, they not only had a longer distance between the two cars in parking spaces, but they also had a longer distance to avoid rear-end crashes when drivers were driving out of the way. So, when I saw this scene in America I felt very shocked, especially when drivers reversed. Several times I saw drivers in trouble. For example, the driver bumped into a car, which was in front of his car and behind his car and he still couldn’t get out of his parking spot. Now, every time I see the same situation I really feel sympathy for these drivers. At the same time  I still feel this situation is so strange. I can’t figure out if these problems happen because the drivers are selfish or just because of the different rules in the U.S., which really are not reasonable rules for drivers.

Dogs and Cats from the Sky... - by Mohammed Alshajajeer
“The sky pours dogs and cats,” someone said. I have heard this phrase since last autumn. I usually think about this phrase when I see dogs and cats on the pavement walking along with people. My experience about Americans' culture is they love having pets. Currently, I live in Brookline, and one of my neighbors has pets. She told me that she has three cats and a dog. “The sky pours dogs and cats,” means a lot of rain. Last autumn in Boston, we had heavy rain for numerous days that meant the sky poured water as much as dogs and cats on the sidewalks. Personally, when I realized the phrase, I laughed a lot and I asked myself why would Americans make up this phrase? I would have made up another phrase, such as the sky pours water as much as cars or beer. “The sky pours beer!!!!”

A Secluded Wonder - by Miguel Angel Martinez Porras
It's surprising what human begins can learn from others. People have several perceptions of the world as it is. Particularly in Boston, the place that I had just arrived to, has become more than a second home even though I'm just here for the summer. I feel that Boston is where I belong. Peoples' personalities in Boston have changed my perspective of how I see life. Nevertheless, I have become so attached to this place that I'm willing to stay at Boston University for the entire school year. Indeed I have found that the Bostonian accent can be kind of funny. The air feels different when you arrive here. Boston becomes a stable place to live in. People from different cultures are gathered here to make the best out of research. It’s amazing how different diversities can learn from each other. Boston is a place where wonders happen in a place that is indescribable until you get here. In Boston, teachers from different cultures are here to help you do what they came here to do: research. I know that it is going to be hard to say goodbye to Boston after the summer ends, but I'm willing to come back.

Alarms Alarms Everywhere - by Ana Paula Pita
One of the things that I found peculiar and very different from my country, is how the Boston emergency services react. The police and the firemen always arrive in a short time and with a massive amount of trucks, alarms, and staff. Since I arrived in Boston, there has not been any day that I haven’t heard an alarm. Even though the incident or the emergency may not be a big deal, Bostonians exaggerate the situation. In my country, Spain, the emergency services are extremely fast but they just bring the ¨necessary¨ services. For example, last weekend there was a shooting near BU and unfortunately one person died. The streets were shut down for hours and there were eight ambulances, eight! Just for one cadaver. Also, 4 black cars arrived with investigators to find out what was the problem, and don’t forget about the 4 helicopters going around and the news services. In my opinion, that was a massive exaggeration of the situation.  In conclusion, this is something that needs to be fixed and that shocked me the first time I saw the emergency services in action, but now I am getting used to it.

The Blue Sky of Boston- by Alanoud Alqahtani
What I noticed in Boston from my very first day here was its wide baby blue sky and its clouds that look like cotton candy. I remember waking up after my tough trip, exhausted. I wanted to have breakfast so I went out to the hotel’s lobby. While I was looking for something to eat I looked out to the street. The sky was really close to earth and its blue color was clear and attractive. I forgot everything I was planning to do that day, and walked out of the hotel. I was walking and my eyes were fixed upon the sky. I have always had deep feelings towards the sky, especially if it was cloudy, since my childhood. I used to go out with my father and we used to count the clouds. That day I felt that my father was not at my home country but here with me. That is why I really wanted to hug those clouds. I remember that day I did not have breakfast, I just bought a Starbucks iced coffee and sat down to watch that beautiful sky.

The Transportation Issues in Boston - by Romayh El Jurdi
Is it possible in the United States of America to have an obsolete traffic system? As a Civil Engineer who graduated from the American University of Beirut (AUB), I was immersed in the American codes that are relevant to transportation. While I was in university, I perceived the United States transportation system as an ideal and superb system that is designed according to intricate and thorough standards.  However, my conception changed drastically when I visited Boston for the first time in 2013 due to the deficient implementation of the system.  First, there is always traffic in many areas around Boston. Moreover, the streets need a spectacular renovation in order to be in line with the American standards and codes.  However, what surprised me the most is that people who live here don’t abide by the rules related to crossing the streets in the allocated time that is preset and designed by prudent engineers. Personally, I don’t envy any driver in Boston for two reasons. First, I feel that the priority is for the people who are walking around the city and not for the drivers. Second, the cars need regular maintenance due to the bad quality of the asphalt in the major and minor streets in the city. In the end, I think that every city has its peculiar issues but sweeping this aside the inimitable ambience of Boston makes it a perfect place to dwell in until I complete my Masters degree.

Summer is About Sharing English Language and Joy at CELOP

Gian PolteraHere I introduce a 28 year old Swiss class mate, Gian, who has studied a masters of computer science. His first language is Romansh. His passion for learning the English language is what brings him to CELOP in Boston. He says the city of Boston has so many cultural activities, the environment is very literal.

The city looks especially  nice in summer.
He meets different kinds of people with different backgrounds, which provides tons of knowledge for every student at CELOP.
He says at CELOP the English language brings all students to one platform. This language offers a reason to stay connected to everyone. He finds CELOP to be a very interactive place, and of course life is all about sharing, so keep sharing and may the English language be the reason for connection all over the world.

Interview and Photo by
Sadia Jabbar

Do Humans Feel Like They Are Never Satisfied?

"The grass is always greener on the other side."  This is a common expression that is used to describe human nature.  We always want what other people have and we always think that life would be better if we could just get a little more.  In my opinion, people are never satisfied with what they have because we live in a society where the media tells us we need to buy more stuff to be happy, because we generally lack a level of spiritual enlightenment, and because we can't find true satisfaction through material items.

First of all, nowadays we live in a society that is surrounded by the media that constantly tells us we need to buy more and more in order to feel happy.  We get messages when we see advertisements on the internet with pictures of beautiful people wearing the newest clothes and riding in the most beautiful cars.  From when we are little kids, we feel a need to always want more because the tv shows tell us that kids looks like they are having so much fun with all their cool toys and awesome new devices.  For example, my daughters crave to look like the Disney actresses on shows like "Jesse" that depict rich kids looking like little super models.

Next, in the United States today, people have become detached from the spiritual side of their body.  They have become so obsessed with their outer appearance and the material items that they think they need to be content, that they have lost sight of what is most important in life.  Being connected to a deeper understanding of our moral being is crucial for a satisfying life.  For example, it has been proven that when people have a strong sense of moral values and they live every day in order to help their families, friends and neighbors, they are much more likely to be happy.  They live their life in order to make society a better place with love and compassion.  They do not put all their time and energy in making themselves look beautiful and buying more meaningless possessions.

Finally, true satisfaction cannot be found in piling up material possessions.  This lesson is particularly clear when we think of people who have lost their homes in a fire.  When push comes to shove, we don't really need anything but our loved ones.  We would all trade every item in our house so that our family could be healthy and safe.  Becoming aware of this makes us become thankful for the lives we lead and it's of the utmost importance that we remind ourselves of this often.

In conclusion, it is clear that it is innate in human beings to feel unsatisfied with what they have.  However, it is also clear that there is a way to alleviate this problem.  We should avoid paying attention to the multi-billion dollar American media machine, we should keep a strong sense of moral values to better ourselves and our society, and we should be thankful for what is most valuable in life: family, good health, and love.

 

Cheese and Pastry

The other day I attended a potluck at a friend’s house. During our discussion, we decided that we would have another potluck soon, choosing dishes of our own nationality or culture. Since I am half Danish, I offered to cook some Danish food. An acquaintance of my friend looked at me astounded and exclaimed; “What’s there to bring? Danish food is nothing more than cheese and pastry.” I felt really irritated by the remarks even though I could see from her expression that she didn’t mean any harm.

This was not the first time that I like many others have been struck by the insensitivity of a culture or country being vaguely defined by one or two simple characteristics. This is certainly not the worst stereotype I have ever experienced or witnessed, but sometimes even a positive generality can be offensive. I thought long and hard about why this should bother me so. I think that when another person stubbornly defines others by clinging to a narrowly defined definition of a culture rather than looking at others with open eyes and ears to what that culture has to offer it can be very frustrating. Learning about some common characteristics of a group of people does not afford us the right to box people into our simple definition because that’s what we are comfortable with. Once I got over my irritation I decided that the only way to dispel this myth was with knowledge. I also decided that for the next potluck I would fill her face with fish, meat, cabbage, fruits, and anything but cheese or pastry to show her the wide array of foods available.

I was fortunate enough to have the opportunity to visit Copenhagen a few weeks ago, and to see my mother’s childhood home and the places I remembered from childhood. Allow me to show you some of the aspects of Denmark I love, in addition to cheese and pastry!

I noticed that despite the pastry and bakeries on every corner, the Danes appear to be in pretty good shape physically. The culture is one of walking and bicycling. There are bicycles everywhere and most streets have fully separate lanes and traffic signals just for bicycles. There are even bridges and walkways that are only for people traveling by bicycle.

Danes have a reputation for their strong sense of design. Their designs tend to be light and sleek with smooth lines. They have won many awards for designs for furniture and also for the well-known and beautifully designed speakers by Bangs and Olufson.

Denmark is not Holland, they do not speak Dutch, and although they do have some tulips, they are known for a very small type of daisy, which grows in small patches everywhere. Signature Danish jewelry is the daisy design, painted in white and yellow enamel.

Denmark is home to the original story of Hamlet, which was originally a Danish myth. The story goes that Shakespeare learnt of the myth and spruced it up in his classic style.

Although the Danes love to have the best design, they are committed to “being green” and to creating designs which are also efficient and contribute to a simpler life. They prefer bicycles to cars and they constantly try to invent items to help others. A fairly recent invention is a solar light called “Little Sun”, which provides light to children with no electricity and which lasts three years. Another one is a drinking tube, which can filter drinking water from anywhere.

Because fishing is their second biggest industry, there are tons of fresh fish dishes to eat. It is common to eat open faced sandwiches, piled high with shrimp, smoked salmon, herring, halibut, and caviar. I remember that my friends thought it was very odd that I ate sandwiches with a knife and fork when I was little. However unless you want most of the sandwich to go into your shirt or are really talented at catching flying shrimp, this is the most practical way to eat this kind of sandwich. Danes also love butter and mayonnaise and we used to joke that we should order some shrimp to go with our mayonnaise as opposed to the other way around.

If at any point one is lost or needs help, the Danes are extremely helpful, kind, and friendly. They are also known for a very wry sense of humor.  If you don't pay careful attention to what people say, you may miss some jokes as they are often said with a straight face and a pause.  It takes a second to realize that the person playing has just said something that is total nonsense as if it's real information.
The Danes used to have a Viking empire, which stretched as far as England and Ireland. They have a long history of sailing and exploring.  Many Danes have sailors and ship captains in their heritage. Lots of beautiful apartments adorn the water surrounding Copenhagen. By the the 19th century the country had become much, much smaller. However, despite their tiny size, the Danes were known for freeing many slaves from St. Thomas and the Virgin Islands, and for standing up to the Nazis.

Denmark is abundant with museums and castles. It is also home to the original Lego Land the creator of Legos and the beautiful Tivoli Gardens. Denmark is also home to Hans Christian Anderson and his famous fairy tales.  The statue of the little mermaid sits by the water, although she has been decapitated a few times and her head has been hidden in various spots. She appears to be in one piece at the moment.

It was one of the first countries I witnessed to use scooters for practicality. When I first went there I was five years old and my grandmother was very ill. The minute we arrived at the Copenhagen airport, we saw lots of people riding scooters to get to their gates. Then at the hospital, the doctors and sometimes the nurses rode scooters to get to their patients faster. This was my first time seeing adults riding scooters with a purpose.

And finally,  lets not forget the pastry and cheese, which are out of this world. I believe that the Danes originally got almonds from the Middle East and incorporated them into many pastries. Almond paste is used in many sweets, including marzipan. The cheeses are rich and decadent. I hope you will see this wonderful country soon.

Photos by Katja Davidoff